The One Ingredient That Enables You To Have 365 Chances Every Year To Make Your Dreams Come True
By Barry Sarner
What’s the Ingredient? It’s Positive Expectancy and we all have it in our power to make it an integral part of our life. What is positive expectancy?
Positive Expectancy is all about “New Tomorrows” and the beautiful notion of “Starting Fresh” and “Starting over every day, any day”.
The simple reality of it all is that the world wakes up and the world goes to sleep. What happens in between for the most part plays out based on what choices we make all day. The choices could be as simple as deciding to sit on a bus instead of standing.
I had an accident months ago and I played it over and over again in my mind. I remember thinking to myself that if I had left the store when I planned and not gone back for something it would have been someone else and not me in the accident.
The point is that you make decisions and choices all day long. Some work out in your favor and some don’t and I say, so what. Why not decide to have an attitude that you’re a good person and that you have the right to expect good things to happen to you and for you? It’s a simple choice. It’s also a numbers game.
The more you believe that you’re worthy of good or great personal events the better chance you have of it coming true. Even if it happens initially only 20% of the time that’s better than zero times and zero times it will be if your expectations are low or nonexistent.
The exciting reality here is that the more you use, strengthen and adjust your positive expectancy attitude the more your success percentage will go up. Expecting good things to happen every day for you is a choice that every human being should be making. I promise you there’s no law, secular or religious, that says that you cannot expect great things to happen to you.
Your past does not determine what your life will be or could be. A firm decision to choose positive expectancy will start you on a journey of success and happiness. Patience and persistence will be the vehicles that get you to the finish line. All you have to realize and then commit to is the fact that you have the right to expect great things and that you’ll have great things happen to you.
You have the chance to start your life over 365 days per year. Every year you have 365 chances to make your Dreams come true. Expect good things every day. Every night and every morning tell yourself that although the day may have challenging and stressful situations you still will have good things happen to you. Just say it out loud often and with feeling.
Will this be the day you go for it? Will you go for that dream that keeps you up at night? Will you go for the dream that makes your heart pump faster and your mind spin out of control?
Not today? That’s ok. Don’t ever give up.You have 364 more chances this year to make it happen.
I wish for you to have a lifetime of very powerful tomorrows.
The 10 Ingredients That You’ll Need To Know In Order To Achieve Success In Life And Business…
Hi All,
You have a dream? You want success? You need to succeed? Here’s what you need to make it happen.
I don’t like the expression keys to success. There are no locks to success that need to be opened. Success really has an open door policy and it’s up to us just to walk on in and make all our dreams come true.
There are INGREDIENTS that need to be blended and a recipe to follow to create a successful life. As in cooking everyone will always add that little something of their own to the recipe to make it special and successful.
The 10 ingredients below are to be working together for and with you at all times. They’re not to be addressed as individual ingredients to be used individually at certain times. You will find that all these ingredients will blend and overlap each other on a daily basis. The more you know about each one and how it will affect you on your success journey the stronger and more accurate you’ll be when trying to hit your targets or goals.
The following are the 10 ingredients for success:
1-Support – Everyone needs a cheerleader. Everyone needs someone to go to for advice, support and information. When the body and mind want to quit you need a voice whispering in your ear that you can and will make it. Friends, family or other professionals could make up your success support team. This is the most critical ingredient for your success journey.
2-Dreams – Everything starts here. Whatever the mind can conceive it can achieve. Don’t let anyone tell you to give up on your dreams. Make your dreams an integral part of your life.
3-Goals – We all need direction. You need to know where you’re going and when you’ll be able to get there. Goals will help you with this. Make them big goals. Don’t be afraid to set big goals. Big goals will energize and inspire you.
4-Reality – You must learn how to deal with the harsh realities of life at the current moment and at the same time keep your eye on where you want to be. Your dreams and goals will help make this happen for you.
5-Positive Expectancy – You must be able to know in your heart that whatever life throws at you it will be ok and you’ll be ok. You must embrace and have faith in the notion that every day is another chance to start fresh and fix and adjust anything that knocked you off course.
6-Emotions – Emotions are yours and they are meant to help you and guide you. You must acknowledge them all and respect them. Let your emotions have their say and question why you feel that way. You’ll feel empowered and confident once you and your emotions become allies.
7-Fear – Everyone lives with this particular emotion. Courage is not the lack of fear it’s feeling the fear and moving forward anyway.
8-Think Negative – Expect the worst and hope for the best. This attitude will never let you down. It will stimulate questions that need to be answered and it will help in keeping you safe in business and in your personal life.
9-Questions – Questions get you answers. Answers are what you need to be able to achieve success in your life. Always ask questions that start with who, what, when, where, why and how. Question everything and your chances of success increase at an incredible rate. You can never ask too many questions.
10-Action – Just move forward. Adopt the attitude of ready, fire, aim instead of ready, aim, fire and make adjustments as you travel. You can’t get to where you’re going unless you get out of the house and let opportunity bump into you.
Embrace all 10 ingredients and as you move forward build your own success support community. As I said earlier this is the most critical ingredient of all.
Having success support is about having people in your life who care about you and are loyal to you as well as having people in your life who are positive, intelligent, ethical, and ambitious. Having quality people participating in your success journey and each person enthusiastically participating is absolutely essential to your success.
Your success support team gives you feedback, helps you brainstorm new possibilities, and sets up accountability structures that keep you focused and on track. You must create a success support group who will brainstorm together with you and help you move closer to all your goals and dreams. Success Support is a significant, critical ingredient for you achieving all your goals and making your dreams come true.
Good Luck,
Regards,
Barry
Two Critical Elements You Need To Have On Your Success Journey
Two Critical Elements You Need To Have On Your Success Journey
To have in your grasp every element that you need to succeed is extreme wishful thinking. You can never have too many but you can have too few and you certainly can have the wrong ones.
After 30 years of building large ladies apparel manufacturing companies I’m here to tell you that the two most critical elements needed to build your fantastic future are Attitude and Success Support.
Attitude:
“Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference.” ~Winston Churchill
Definition- A state of mind or a feeling; disposition.
Talk about an understatement. This statement reads so mildly, so peacefully that you would think “a state of mind” is weighted the same as a simple bad mood. The fact is your “state of mind” or attitude is your control center and it will determine what you accomplish today, tomorrow, next week, and many years to come.
It will determine how you are received,cared about, liked and loved by any and all people you meet in your personal and/or business life.
Attitude determines how you react to life and all of life’s challenges. It will be the key that opens the doors to many opportunities. All you have to do is boldly proclaim “I want to change my life, ramp up the hope machine,check your attitude and move forward.
Your attitude is all about how you think and how you react.
If you want to know how to give your attitude an overhaul read, “How To Win Friends And Influence People” By Dale Carnegie and “Think and Grow Rich” By Napoleon Hill. These two books are the foundation of the Personal Development movement.
In Addition, visit your favorite search engine and search “attitude” to find an unending supply of great articles on the subject. I implore you to do the research and give your attitude a reality check as soon as possible. It could change your life.
Success Support:
This element to me is the most powerful one and it is worth whatever time and effort it takes to cultivate.
To do Search Engine research — “Mastermind Groups”, “Success support”, “Success Support forums”
What Success Support does for you:
1.You have trusted people available to help you achieve your goals.
2.You get the benefit of differing perspectives, input and feedback.
3.Your Success Support team can bring resources and connections to the table you might not have had on your own.
4.You have people who care about you and your future holding you accountable and offering a steady flow of inspiration and encouragement.
Your team should have it all covered and it should be diversified:
1- Parents, family or significant other for private moments when fear or anxiety overcomes you. A hug from someone who loves you is a great thing.It also allows you to be yourself and that is very powerful.
2-Professionals…Accountant, Lawyer, Life coach, Banker Etc.
3-Mentor- Having this could cut many years off your learning curve.
4-Doctor to monitor your health.
5-Trainer or gym partner to push each other to exercise.
Napoleon Hill, in “Think and Grow Rich”, even went so far as to say that there was a mystical quality created when a mastermind group or success support team was formed. He said: “No two minds ever come together without, thereby, creating a third, invisible, intangible force which may be likened to a third mind.
If you concentrate on all of the above your success journey will be much more enjoyable and you dramatically increase the odds for success in your favor
The 10 Ingredients That You’ll Ever Need to Know to Achieve Success in Life and Business…
Hi All,
You have a dream? You want success? You need to succeed? I can help you. Please join me on my journey to get back the success that I had and I will show you how I did it the first time, gave it back and now, how I’ll get it back..
Some general thoughts to kick off my success journey:
If you look at any successful person in business or in your personal life you would be looking at someone who has a great support network. That network could be one person or 10 people. The point is that these people have someone in their lives that are on the sidelines cheering them on.
I have learned, over many years trying to figure out the secret of success, that there is no secret. It really is about who you know and not about what you know most of the time.That’s very good news and I’ll talk about that in future articles.
I dont like the expression “the keys to success”. There are no locks to success that need to be opened. There are INGREDIENTS that need to be blended and a recipe to follow to create a successful life. As in cooking everyone will always add that little something of their own to the recipe to make it special and successful.
Success really has an open door policy and it’s up to us just to walk on in and get what we dreamed of.
The following are my 10 ingredients for success…
1-Dreams
2-Goals
3-Reality
4-support
5-Positive Expectancy
6-Emotions
7-Fear
8-Think Negative
9-Questions
10-Action.
I will write about all these ingredients and make videos about them.I was a self-made millionaire, gave it back intentionally (will explain later) and I’m now rebuilding.I will share the success ingredients that made me successful as well as the many steps back I took to be able to move forward to a life I wanted and most importantly of all…THAT I NEEDED. The ingredients above are all you’ll need to achieve the kind of success you want.
I’m a little nervous about “laying it all out there” for the world to see but I know I have a solid success story that I know could help so many people struggling and trying to “make it”. I have made many mistakes and had to take so many detours for me to succeed. I could cut years off your learning curve. Even if I don’t know something I have a huge amount of contacts that I could go to and get us the answers we need.
Some may call the last 5 years of my life a Mid-life crisis and say that I have been selfish and irresponsible. To me it’s been all about trying to find my way “Back Home”.
Back home to my special place in life. Back home to find the funny kid whose sense of humor got me through lifes rough and tumble challenges. Back home to the dreamer who knew that he can and will make his goals come true. Back home to the kid that always bumped into success at every turn on life’s highway. Back home to the kid that grew up without a Father while living in the NYC public housing projects and became a millionaire and a very proud dad of the best son anyone could ever have. I want to get back home to the kid who was passionate, hopeful and fearless.
I NEEDED to find my way back home so I went back and “simply” started all over again.
This personal Journey has been an enlightening one. I have taken risks that I normally would not take, I have been more introspective and adventurous than I have ever been and I made significant sacrifices that I normally would never make. Most importantly I have learned so much more about myself and about what’s really important in life.
My son, my mom and the Abused ,Homeless, Hungry Animals and Children of the world are my priorities. I will rebuild my success and devote my time and money to protecting and saving our Abused ,Homeless and Hungry Animals and Children.
We can make all our dreams come true if we support each other. Please join me on my journey to rebuild my success AND rebuild or achieve your success . In addition to all future articles on article sites you will also find my journey on My Blog AND my Video Channel.
Speak to you soon…
Regards
Barry
Barry Sarner
barry@cbtpusa.com
POSITIVE MESSAGES
”The bond that links your true family is not one of blood, but of respect and joy in each other’s life. Rarely do members of one family grow up under the same roof.” RICHARD BACH, Illusions
“Here is the basic rule for winning success. Let’s mark it in the mind and remember it. The rule is: Success depends on the support of other people. The only hurdle between you and what you want to be is the support of other people.” ~ David Joseph Schwartz Quotes
“When you get into a tight place and everything goes against you, till it seems as though you could not hang one minute longer, never give up then, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn. “~Harriet Beecher Stowe (1811 – 1896)
