The One Ingredient That Enables You To Have 365 Chances Every Year To Make Your Dreams Come True
By Barry Sarner
What’s the Ingredient? It’s Positive Expectancy and we all have it in our power to make it an integral part of our life. What is positive expectancy?
Positive Expectancy is all about “New Tomorrows” and the beautiful notion of “Starting Fresh” and “Starting over every day, any day”.
The simple reality of it all is that the world wakes up and the world goes to sleep. What happens in between for the most part plays out based on what choices we make all day. The choices could be as simple as deciding to sit on a bus instead of standing.
I had an accident months ago and I played it over and over again in my mind. I remember thinking to myself that if I had left the store when I planned and not gone back for something it would have been someone else and not me in the accident.
The point is that you make decisions and choices all day long. Some work out in your favor and some don’t and I say, so what. Why not decide to have an attitude that you’re a good person and that you have the right to expect good things to happen to you and for you? It’s a simple choice. It’s also a numbers game.
The more you believe that you’re worthy of good or great personal events the better chance you have of it coming true. Even if it happens initially only 20% of the time that’s better than zero times and zero times it will be if your expectations are low or nonexistent.
The exciting reality here is that the more you use, strengthen and adjust your positive expectancy attitude the more your success percentage will go up. Expecting good things to happen every day for you is a choice that every human being should be making. I promise you there’s no law, secular or religious, that says that you cannot expect great things to happen to you.
Your past does not determine what your life will be or could be. A firm decision to choose positive expectancy will start you on a journey of success and happiness. Patience and persistence will be the vehicles that get you to the finish line. All you have to realize and then commit to is the fact that you have the right to expect great things and that you’ll have great things happen to you.
You have the chance to start your life over 365 days per year. Every year you have 365 chances to make your Dreams come true. Expect good things every day. Every night and every morning tell yourself that although the day may have challenging and stressful situations you still will have good things happen to you. Just say it out loud often and with feeling.
Will this be the day you go for it? Will you go for that dream that keeps you up at night? Will you go for the dream that makes your heart pump faster and your mind spin out of control?
Not today? That’s ok. Don’t ever give up.You have 364 more chances this year to make it happen.
I wish for you to have a lifetime of very powerful tomorrows.
The 10 Ingredients That You’ll Ever Need to Know to Achieve Success in Life and Business…
Hi All,
You have a dream? You want success? You need to succeed? I can help you. Please join me on my journey to get back the success that I had and I will show you how I did it the first time, gave it back and now, how I’ll get it back..
Some general thoughts to kick off my success journey:
If you look at any successful person in business or in your personal life you would be looking at someone who has a great support network. That network could be one person or 10 people. The point is that these people have someone in their lives that are on the sidelines cheering them on.
I have learned, over many years trying to figure out the secret of success, that there is no secret. It really is about who you know and not about what you know most of the time.That’s very good news and I’ll talk about that in future articles.
I dont like the expression “the keys to success”. There are no locks to success that need to be opened. There are INGREDIENTS that need to be blended and a recipe to follow to create a successful life. As in cooking everyone will always add that little something of their own to the recipe to make it special and successful.
Success really has an open door policy and it’s up to us just to walk on in and get what we dreamed of.
The following are my 10 ingredients for success…
1-Dreams
2-Goals
3-Reality
4-support
5-Positive Expectancy
6-Emotions
7-Fear
8-Think Negative
9-Questions
10-Action.
I will write about all these ingredients and make videos about them.I was a self-made millionaire, gave it back intentionally (will explain later) and I’m now rebuilding.I will share the success ingredients that made me successful as well as the many steps back I took to be able to move forward to a life I wanted and most importantly of all…THAT I NEEDED. The ingredients above are all you’ll need to achieve the kind of success you want.
I’m a little nervous about “laying it all out there” for the world to see but I know I have a solid success story that I know could help so many people struggling and trying to “make it”. I have made many mistakes and had to take so many detours for me to succeed. I could cut years off your learning curve. Even if I don’t know something I have a huge amount of contacts that I could go to and get us the answers we need.
Some may call the last 5 years of my life a Mid-life crisis and say that I have been selfish and irresponsible. To me it’s been all about trying to find my way “Back Home”.
Back home to my special place in life. Back home to find the funny kid whose sense of humor got me through lifes rough and tumble challenges. Back home to the dreamer who knew that he can and will make his goals come true. Back home to the kid that always bumped into success at every turn on life’s highway. Back home to the kid that grew up without a Father while living in the NYC public housing projects and became a millionaire and a very proud dad of the best son anyone could ever have. I want to get back home to the kid who was passionate, hopeful and fearless.
I NEEDED to find my way back home so I went back and “simply” started all over again.
This personal Journey has been an enlightening one. I have taken risks that I normally would not take, I have been more introspective and adventurous than I have ever been and I made significant sacrifices that I normally would never make. Most importantly I have learned so much more about myself and about what’s really important in life.
My son, my mom and the Abused ,Homeless, Hungry Animals and Children of the world are my priorities. I will rebuild my success and devote my time and money to protecting and saving our Abused ,Homeless and Hungry Animals and Children.
We can make all our dreams come true if we support each other. Please join me on my journey to rebuild my success AND rebuild or achieve your success . In addition to all future articles on article sites you will also find my journey on My Blog AND my Video Channel.
Speak to you soon…
Regards
Barry
Barry Sarner
barry@cbtpusa.com
POSITIVE MESSAGES
”The bond that links your true family is not one of blood, but of respect and joy in each other’s life. Rarely do members of one family grow up under the same roof.” RICHARD BACH, Illusions
“Here is the basic rule for winning success. Let’s mark it in the mind and remember it. The rule is: Success depends on the support of other people. The only hurdle between you and what you want to be is the support of other people.” ~ David Joseph Schwartz Quotes
“When you get into a tight place and everything goes against you, till it seems as though you could not hang one minute longer, never give up then, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn. “~Harriet Beecher Stowe (1811 – 1896)
Who’s On Your Side???
Who’s On Your Side?
There are a Gazillion books on how to think positive thoughts and how to be successful. There are a lot of men and women who are making fortunes “teaching” us how to be happy and how to think positive thoughts. There are too many people giving us the “inside” scoop on how they became rich and successful and, OH BOY! , how we could do it too. The problem with the majority of what is being written and spoken about leaves out the most critical key to a successful life’s journey… It’s the answer to the question, who’s on your side?
The truth, in my opinion, is that yes, there are some basic rules you need to follow to have a successful business career or build a wonderfully fantastic life but the one thing, and the main thing, you need to have is a success support group that is there for you. They should be a mixture of people who are Nurturing, smarter than you, more successful than you and they should all believe that dreams can come true if you all help each other.
Most of the books and sermons emphasize “YOU” and what you have to do to move onward and upward. What they don’t mention is the fact the most important success ingredient is whose got your back and “Who’s on your side”. You’re not the Lone Ranger and that mentality will help you get absolutely nowhere and eventually slam into that proverbial wall.
From my experience the people you know and who know you is more important than any experience or Knowledge you may have. What one is lacking in traits needed for success can be rented (accountants, life coach, lawyers, and employees) or found in a success support network. Your own personal success support community.
What you need to do is once you have some powerful goals and before you begin to do anything you must look around you and see who you have on your side and how they can help move you to the next level and complement your personality and abilities.
“WHO’S ON YOUR SIDE???”
This is the most important question you will ever have to ask in your whole life. It’s the question and it’s the answers that will put you on the road to success in anything you want to achieve. If you want to bring someone with you on your journey to success and you think they can help you… STOP – LOOK – THINK. Look into their eyes and think silently “Whose side are you on?” Concentrate. You will be amazed at the answers you’ll get.
“WHOSE SIDE ARE YOU ON???”
Use this question every day of your life. Ask your important People just for the hell of it. If they are truly with you they will “Get It” and be happy to answer you. Ask it out loud when you need to make heavy people decisions. Listen carefully and you’ll be able to build a very strong success support network.
If someone is offended by the question then they’re not for you and they’re “Not on your side”
Make this question and its answers a priority when building your success support community. It will make the difference between whether you succeed or fail. I’ve lived this. This question will protect you if you’re honest and accept the reality it exposes.
I sincerely wish you the best of luck. Keep on Moving forward.
Regards,
Barry
Positive Thinking – The Absolute Power Behind Everything
Positive thinking! Does this bring a positive change in you? Find out more by reading on.
Positive thinking indeed is a powerful tool and it sends out a loud and clear message that greatness is achievable within the fraction of a second. You should believe this fact to realize its full benefits.
The supremacy of this positive thinking can be related to coaching oneself to gain success. Words being the most powerful tool available can provide additional self motivation to clear hassles that cloud your mind.
You cannot achieve success unless you believe consistently that you can achieve the tasks you set for yourself. If you tell yourself that you can’t run a marathon then you have already defeated yourself. If this is heard by your subconscious mind it records it and all that you can remember thereafter is that, ‘you can’t run a marathon’.
Most of us forget to realize that every person is important as all of them possess abilities to direct their thoughts and control their emotions which finallt craft their destiny. Wealth, happiness and success that you garner entirely depends on the way you set your mind.
Success comes to a person who has the power of thinking positively.
Positive thinking is nothing but an attitude or mental thought which leads to good results at the end. Along with this positive thinking, one must work towards achieving their goal as this in fact has the power to encourage and motivate people who are depressed with their life. Actually, positive thinking is a positive feeling which helps one pursue their goal, irrespective of the hindrances coming their way.
These are few tips and actions that can assist you in developing that positive thinking power:
* Always make use of positive words when you think or talk. Use words like: ‘it can be done’, ‘it is indeed possible’, ‘I can do it’, ‘I can’, etc.
* Allow feelings of success, strength and happiness to gain full control of your life.
* Try disregarding and ignoring those negative thoughts by refusing to think about them and replace them with the several other happy thoughts.
* While conversing, make use of words which can evoke mental feelings and images of success, happiness and strength.
* Prior to deciding upon any plan, visualize everything clearly and their successful outcome. Your visualization with faith and concentration can gain many successful results.
* Read almost one sheet of some inspiring novel everyday.
* Watch movies which can instill in you a feeling of happiness.
* Minimize the time-span of listening to news, instead of that read the newspapers.
* Associate yourself to the people who achieved great success by positive thinking.
* Always walk and sit with straightened back. This can in fact strengthen your inner strength and
confidence.
* Swim, walk or engage yourself in some kind of physical activities.
Remember that positive thinking can bring about positive forces to act in your life that can bring you success.
